How do you feel about your father?
Take a deep breath now, feel deeply into your body and think of your father. What do you feel?
Much of what you feel when you do this, is emotional energy that you have stored from unresolved childhood experiences of your father.
As a child you needed him to be something for you… you desired something from him. You father of course, in his beautiful ‘humanness’, with all of the unresolved stuff he held from his own childhood, was not always able to be this. He simply wasn’t enlightened.
You are both masculine & feminine…
Consider this… despite the physical gender that you embody in this lifetime, you are made up of both masculine and feminine energy.
Your feminine energy is the pure love aspect of who you are. It is the part of you that allows you to be still… to exit your usual left-brain reality of attachment to thought/the external world and to enter your inner world.
Your feminine energy is the realm of pure being and stillness that facilitates inner connection to deeper/Greater parts of you. Your feminine energy is thus your gateway to the parts of you that reside in this pure love, that know your connection to all of life and expresses through your intuition… the creative impulses of your Soul that guide you to your highest, happiest path in life.
You masculine energy is the pure light aspect of who you are. He’s all about directing your light in a focused way in your external world, for the purposes of creating your life. He gets the job done, by applying your faculties of intellect and action, working with concepts and engaging in your external world for the purposes of manifesting here.
Bringing these parts of you together…
When operating in harmony with your feminine self, your masculine self creates your life in a way that is anchored in the pure love of your feminine.
When these two parts of you operate in sync, your external actions in the world (that create your life as it is), are directed from the Greater part of your nature that is accessed from within.
I call this the Creation Equation:
Feminine (love/inner connection) + Masculine (light/external focus) = Birthing your power of creation
Your power of creation flows most powerfully when both of these parts of you are accessed clearly in your process of creating your life.
The creation of your life can then align to your highest and happiest path of creation… the love of your feminine nature is transmitted through your external actions. Life then returns this love to you.
When these parts of you are not operating in sync, your external process of creating your life is not fully aligned with what your heart/Soul wishes to create. You may feel disconnected from your inner sense of purpose, or find that you feel stuck in an area of your life, unable to effectively create what your heart desires.
How can I get my creation equation flowing?
You can start by meeting what you are holding from your relationships with each of your parents. You can even feel into how you feel about their relationship with each other.
What you hold unresolved from these two primary relationships in life will greatly impact your connection to your own masculine and feminine energies… shaping your entire process of creating your life.
All of the perceptions and stored emotions that you hold from these two relationships will also be playing out, in some way, in all of your relationships with men and woman, especially your intimate connections. Basically, what you are holding from these two primary relationships will be the filter through which you experience all relationships.
So, how do you feel about your father… or your mother for that matter?
If you experience emotional energies arise or any tightness/contraction in your body when you think of either of your parents, then your body is telling you that there is something for you to meet and release in relation to this.
If you find that judgments and emotional energy arises for you at times in reaction to something either of your parents says or does, (or a memory of this), then yes, there is indeed something for you to meet in relation to this.
If you look back over your past relationships and see that there have been particular patterns that have played out in them, then there is certainly something for you to meet in relation to this.
If you feel that there is room for being able to more effectively create the life that your heart dreams of, then meeting what you hold unresolved with your parents is a powerful place to start.
With love, Frank.
Transform your relationship with the masculine: A morning of Fatherlove – Sunday 30 June 2013
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